and information regarding the challenges and gifts of the ultimate
love union, the phenomena of spiritual twins or twin souls... two
hearts that beat as one.
are Soul Mates and Twin Souls?
Mates are souls we have met and lived with in many life times. They
have been our lovers, spouses, mothers, fathers, sisters, brothers,
teachers, students, friends, and family, or even our enemies, victims,
or tormenters. We contract with these souls to return to earth together
for greater learning and growth.
souls, also called Twin Flames or Twin Rays, are the other half
of your soul. This is based on the belief that we are all parts
of the Divine Being, God, All That Is, Source, Spirit, Creator.
The Divine Being, in order to experience Its Self, divided into
many souls, each in turn divided into many others and many others.
The final splitting of the many neutrally gendered souls created
male and female halves of a whole, the Twin Soul.
have many soul mates, the first larger splitting of souls. These
souls resonate with us and there is a comfort in that recognition.
We evolve and reincarnate with these souls through many lifetimes,
learning lessons in our many unions and partings, you can say on
some level we are all soul mates one with another, learning and
growing together. Not all these lessons are loving or comforting
as lessons in forgiveness and unconditional love are challenging.
Sometimes we are the "victim", and sometimes we are the
"darkness" that shows another soul their light. This is
where freewill and choice comes into the "game", how we
react or perceive our relationships. Someone can come into your
life and cause you much pain and suffering, this is a soul contract
between you to grow and evolve in love and forgiveness. This is
one perception of karma, and one that will free you from the karmic
cycle of "I kill you, now you kill me" type of karmic
dance some souls are involved in for many lifetimes. You break the
cycle by acting rather than reacting, by freeing the ego from the
soul and learning to love and forgive even in suffering.
greatest joy and our greatest pain are both conceived in these soul
mate relationships, our feelings intensified by our soul connections,
whether for good or bad. You can often spot a soul mate or karmic
relationship by "love at first site" or "revulsion
at first site", depending upon the lessons you've contracted
to learn from this soul.
can live a lifetime in joy and harmony with a resonant soul mate,
and this a beautiful, but rare gift.
Becoming "Whole" Before "Two"
is said that one does not meet their Twin Soul or Twin Flame until
they have learned many lessons of love, loss and forgiveness through
close Soul Mate relationships, that the heart is made resilient
and strong through pain and loss, and must be so to face the intensity
of being with the other half of their soul.
people who have met their Twin Soul had experienced a "Dark
Night of the Soul", or a major spiritual transformation just
prior to meeting, or upon meeting this soul. It's almost as if you
need to be "emptied out" emotionally, spiritually and
mentally as a test of your spirit. Meeting your "other half" can be a magical, maddening experience that opens your perceptions.
Some experience an opening of their psychic awareness as their heart
expands in this unbounded and unconditional love. The fact is, your
life will not be the same, and whether you perceive this as a gift
or a curse is the challenge of your soul's evolution. The Twin Soul
connection is always a triad involving the Divine Spirit/All That
Is, two people connected by soul, connected to God.
one can physically unite with their Twin Soul, one must do the conscious
work of healing and becoming whole within their self. Twin Soul
love cannot exist in a codependent, ego-based relationship, or from
a perceived "need" that the other person will make you
whole. Both must often face separations while they strengthen their
own connection to Spirit and find their strength and purpose on
half will find balance in their male/female, yin/yang before union.
When both halves of the Soul become strong pillars on their own,
have healed and resolved karmic ties in the present life, then they
can unite to fulfill their Divine purpose, but the challenges do
not end. There is an intensity that can be frightening when dealing
with your mirror, your weaknesses and strengths magnified, unresolved
issues and wounds painfully open to push you to further healing,
or cause ego to run from the relationship in fear. It's important
for Twin Souls to find their greater purpose, whether it's a task
they will accomplish together, or alone, there will be work to be
Twin Souls do not unite physically here on Earth, and the relationship
may last a lifetime on the spiritual level alone, while one or both
may be living physically with another soul in karmic agreement.
Some Twin Souls other halves are not even on the Earth plane at
the same time and will offer guidance and comfort from beyond as
a "guardian angel."
Connections and Synchronicity
and spiritual connection with your twin soul is intense and profound.
Many experience a feeling of connection in a matrix of golden white
threads of light, whether consciously or in a dream state. Some
have strong psychic connection with their twin, feeling their thoughts
embrace them mutually in an ecstatic place of comfort and bliss.
You may feel your twin's pain and suffering in heart-wrenching anguish.
Often physical symptoms are shared between twins, simultaneous nosebleeds, headaches, body aches are confirmed by both twins.
the coincidental occurrence of events and especially psychic events
(as similar thoughts in widely separated persons or a mental image
of an unexpected event before it happens) that seem related but are
not explained by conventional mechanisms of causality; used especially
in the psychology of C. G. Jung
Synchronicity plays an important part in twin soul meetings... I
like to say that synchronicity is God's way of getting your attention.
You may find simular experiences in the same timeframes before you even met, marriages, births, divorces, illnesses. You may find that you had lived as neighbors in totally different towns at some point in your lifes or vacationed in the same country at the same time.
and Twin Souls
of the most intriguing messages of synchronicity
has to do with the numbers 11:11, you may find those numbers jumping out at you from digital clocks, restaurant receipts, license plates, phone numbers and such.
appearance of 11:11 is an always beneficial act of Divine Intervention.
It tells you that it is time to take a good look around you and see
what is real and what is illusory. It's time to pierce the veils of
illusion which keep us bound to an unreal world. You have been chosen,
because you are ready, to step into a Greater Reality. To lead the
way for others into a new way of living, into a Greater Love. To ascend
from duality into Oneness. The 11:11 is the bridge between duality
and Oneness. It is our pathway into the Unknown. " from Solara & the 11:11
numerology, the numbers 11 and 22 are master numbers, numbers that
have their own unique meanings before being broken down into 2 and
4 respectively. In numerology the number 11 is often considered
the number of the "spiritual messenger", a number of spiritual
illumination signifying a channel for the information between the
"higher" and "lower", a connection between conscious
and unconscious, heaven and earth, yin and yang, male and female.
Two "ones" joined, that make the pillars to the heavenly
gate. The vibration and message of "two into one" and
"ones' into two", the power of "one" twice amplified
... this is a perfect symbol of the twin soul.
twin flames have experienced this phenomena of 11's in birthdates,
numerology, dates of meeting and such, and constantly receive the
same 11:11 messages. I believe it can only be a symbol of the greater
work that twin souls have been united on this earth to do.
Do You Know if You've Met Your Twin?
the "other half of your soul" is generally so life changing
and profound that this question is unnecessary.... you just know.
Twin souls will both recognize this extraordinary bond, whether
they are evolved and whole enough to acknowledge and act upon it
is another thing. Meeting with your twin soul brings about an internal
spiritual revolution, a deeper connection and understanding of the
Divine and the Universal Oneness, this is the greatest gift of knowing
your twin. Twin soul love is not to be confused with an obsessive/compulsive
disorder, it's not a desire to "possess" another, but
truly a challenge to love unconditionally and without expectation,
to be whole and complete within yourself before joining with the
other whole and complete side of your soul. The longing and desire
to be with your twin soul is intense, but through growth and perception
can be seen as the greater longing to join with the Divine, and
that is the true lesson, you are two halves of a much greater whole.
you meet your twin, there will be no "game-playing" or
manipulation, you will have the need to be transparently honest
in your relationship and communication with one another. If there
is karma from past lives to work out between you, it will be apparent
and consciously worked out. If you or your twin is committed to
another relationship, you will respect and honor that bond and realize
the tests of unconditional love. Meeting your twin soul challenges
you to grow spiritually, heal mentally, emotionally, physically,
and to see beyond time, ego, and physical limitations. You will
be driven with the desire to be the best manifestation of your soul
on earth. This is not a relationship of hearts and flowers, but
one that will be tested in fire and will endure beyond time and
I need to caution that all of these signs are not "proof" of meeting the other half of your soul, very often we are challenged by the meeting of a "near twin" or karmic soul mate that can mirror all these signs. In my own experience, the man I believed with my entire being of being my twinflame, turned out to be a karmic soul mate, and one of the most painful lessons of my life. Thus, this article has been rewritten eliminating some of the original text. After these few years of reflection, I've come to see that there are no guarantees in life, in all our lessons we are called to learn unconditional love, compassion and forgiveness, a meeting with a karmic soul mate can be the ultimate test of your spiritual evolution. Many people have written me, asking me to somehow confirm their belief that they have met their twin soul. There is no confirmation until the ultimate reunion with Divine Source, until then the greatest message I have received is, "Do not fear being "wrong."
In other words, if we are so determined to believe that this or that certain person is our twin, we tend to become blinded to the rest of the lessons in life. Life is about love in all forms, how can we truly grow without trusting in the wisdom of the Universe to bring to us those which will teach us best? Love is not about expectation, love is without condition, but relationships on this Earth are all about conditions. I would advise anyone who believes they have met their twin, yet is in such pain from that meeting, that perhaps the time for union is not right, or that they are enmeshed in a karmic soul mate or "near twin" relationship. Only in "letting go" can we be prepared to receive what is truly ours. There are some that believe the "reunion" with our twinflame is truly within, that we carry the essence of our beloved within our soul, and we are challenged to manifest that love in all we do, without attachment, without expectation, we become ONE.
hope you find clarity and comfort in the articles, features and
links about Soul Mates, Twin Souls & Twin Flames that I've collected
on these pages.
of peace, love & light,
Harusami, rewrite Oct. 2005